Tuesday, March 27, 2012

"Getting Back Your Ex - How to Discover the Real Cause of Break Up and Make Them Love You Again"





"Getting Back Your Ex - How to Discover the Real Cause of Break Up and Make Them Love You Again"," Quite often we are so much obsessed with ourselves that we cannot think of any reason for break up that does not relate to us. We think that the entire life of our lover just revolves around us and that they have no existence outside us. Here is how it may happen. Quite possibly the reason why your ex broke up may have nothing to do with you. Did he, for example, tell you that he was going nuts because he had been put on notice on his poor performance at his job? Or, he had not done well in his exam/interview/competition and he was looking to a grim future. He had found you were too intelligent for him even though you never behaved with him like that. He had developed a kind of inferiority complex vis-a-vis you and wouldn't be able to give you the kind of company you deserved. That he was, in fact, trying to hide from you in the guise of breaking away from you. Some men are too 'manly' to openly admit their weaknesses and try to quietly exit out of relationship so they do not have to face questions, be embarrassed or tell lies. You have to get out of yourself, empathise with him to locate it. Don't touch upon his ailing spot or offer him your shoulder to cry upon. Don't show your compassion. Try to make him open up. He may gradually come out in bits. Some people cannot do the things because they are beyond their control. Tell him you love him for whatever he is. There may be several other individual reasons-there normally are that require a customized approach. Nobody is at fault and yet there is a breakup. If there is a problem, there is a solution as well. 

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